Understanding Relational Transactional Analysis: Building Healthier Relationships

By Dr. Eric Berne, Ian Stewart, and Vann Joines

Introduction to Transactional Analysis (TA) Transactional Analysis (TA) is a psychoanalytic theory and method of therapy wherein social transactions are analyzed to determine the ego state of the communicator as a basis for understanding behavior. TA was developed by Dr. Eric Berne in the late 1950s.

Ego States Dr. Eric Berne’s foundational work identifies three ego states: Parent, Adult, and Child. These states are consistent patterns of feeling and experience directly related to a corresponding consistent pattern of behavior.

  • Parent: Incorporates the attitudes and behaviors of the person’s parents or caretakers. This can be nurturing or critical.
  • Adult: Deals with the present and processes information rationally.
  • Child: Contains all the impulses that come naturally to an infant. This can be free and spontaneous or adapted.

Transactions and Scripts Berne outlined that communication, or “transactions,” occur between these ego states in people. Understanding these transactions can help identify maladaptive patterns and improve interpersonal dynamics.

Relational TA Ian Stewart and Vann Joines, contemporary practitioners of TA, have expanded on Berne’s work, emphasizing the relational aspects of TA. Relational TA focuses on the dynamics of relationships and how they shape our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.

Building Healthier Relationships Stewart and Joines highlight several key aspects for building healthier relationships:

  • Awareness: Understanding which ego state, you are operating from can help in managing reactions and improving communication.
  • Authenticity: Encouraging honest and open communication.
  • Boundaries: Setting and respecting boundaries to foster mutual respect.

By analyzing and adjusting the way we interact with others through TA, we can develop healthier and more fulfilling relationships.